I used to be a watcher.
I kept it quiet so people won’t notice my fear.
I knew I want to play but I was afraid.
I never went first. I waited for others to go first so I am sure it’s “safe”. So afraid of the unknown.
I was never in front because that means drawing attention to me. It was hard enough handling my own attention knowing that I am not doing what I really want to do.
It was hard getting off the bench. It was hard saying out loud or even to myself – I WANT TO PLAY!
But I knew that in life there two types of people. Some people are out there playing and daring and some are just watching, waiting for their death to come.
I know how it feels to be a watcher… Watch others play.
I am the coach. I am the playmaker. I decide what is going to happen, when it’s going to happen and how it’s going to happen.
I OWN my game.
I am taking chances on the things that I really want. I am decisive with my actions and I am making things happen for me.
IF I WAS ABLE TO CHANGE MY LIFE – YOU CAN DO IT.
The best tip… The best advice… The best encouragement I can give you is this:
Get up and work on yourself to be a better man to your woman (and vice versa). Make sure that you can take care of her emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and sexually, so she knows that she is your queen. That she’s number one.
Why am I telling you this and what does it has to do with motivation?
Because the way you are treating your woman, is the way you are treating you work. The two greatest passions of a man. The way you are touching your woman, is the way you are touching the world.
One of my favorite sayings and principles is: HOW YOU DO ANYTHING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING.
Remember that in the end of the day even the greatest player wants to go home… To his woman’s arms.
In the end of the day IT’S ALL ABOUT HER.
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© Gal Hanukaev and TheHeartWay, 2016.